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Healthy 75 Yr Old Chose Euthanasia Because Old Age Is ‘Awful’

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A healthy retired palliative care nurse ended her life at a Swiss euthanasia clinic after describing old age as “awful”

Gill Gill Pharaoh, 75 from the UK also he feared developing a terminal illness and being unable to take her own life.

Having specialised in nursing the elderly, said old age was not ‘fun’ and that she preferred euthanasia to becoming ‘an old lady hobbling up the road with a trolley’.

Before her death, she complained in an interview that her life was in decline as she was no longer enthusiastic about gardening, did not enjoy late dinner parties and she had issues with tinnitus.

She did admit that her complaints were ‘comparatively trivial’ but she said that she wasn’t prepared to go further ‘downhill’.

I do not think old age is fun. I have gone just over the hill now. It is not going to start getting better,’ she said. ‘I have looked after people who are old, on and off, all my life. I have always said, “I am not getting old. I do not think old age is fun.” I know that I have just gone over the hill now. It is not going to start to get better.’

The mother-of-two had to leave Britain to end her life at the Lifecircle clinic in Basel, because UK laws do not allow assisted dying.

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Gill Pharaoh and her partner John Southall

The BBC report:  Campaigners against assisted dying have described the case as “chilling”.

But her partner John Southall told the BBC: “Choosing the time you die is a human right.”

Ms Pharaoh wrote in a blog published by the Sunday Times: “I feel my life is complete and I am ready to die.”

She said while she was largely healthy, an attack of shingles five years ago and tinnitus had made it difficult to take part in the activities she had once enjoyed.

She wrote: “I am not just whinging. Neither am I depressed. Day by day I am enjoying my life.

“I simply do not want to follow this natural deterioration through to the last stage when I may be requiring a lot of help.”

 ‘Deeply troubling’

Care Not Killing, a group which campaigns against assisted dying, condemned Ms Pharaoh’s case as “deeply troubling”.

A spokesman said: “It sends out a chilling message about how society values and looks after elderly people in the UK.

“It seeks the introduction of death on demand for those who fear becoming a burden, even if they are otherwise fit and healthy.”

Her partner, John Southall, told BBC London he had put a lot of questions to her over the years about her intention to get help to take her own life, but said he saw it as “her decision”.

He added: “It was not for me to feel confident [in her decision], but I did agree with the rationale and the logic”.

He explained that in her career as a palliative care nurse she had seen “a lot of people in pretty miserable circumstances – it gave her a dislike of the indignity of that”.

He added: “Choosing the time you die is a human right, who should deny us that?”

A 2014 study by Zurich University suggested an average of around one person a fortnight travels from the UK to Switzerland to receive help to take their own life.

Always an emotive topic but what are your thoughts about euthanasia? Should assisted dying be made legal and if so, where do you draw the when it comes to eligibility?

 

  • Dimi Gkoutzidis

    i dont agree with her decision coz i believe in karma,and that u cant run away from it,u will have 2 pay in another life but i believe that every1 has the right 2 end their life whenever they want,their life,their decision,no matter what others think of it/them…

  • jenny

    one side to this is that dealing with grief is one of the hardest things we encounter,especially when the loss is sudden. The friends and family in your life may not agree with your decision but understanding someone chose to leave rather than be taken means an ability to respect another wishes. Also doing it in an appropriate facility so no one would have to clean up after shows a respect and responsibility. there are so many side to this topic, I’m not saying its right for everyone but I’m a strong believer in choice.

  • Sophie LaFontaine

    NO line. EVERYONE ought to be eligible. Who cares who agrees with or condemns her decision?? None of that should matter. SHE is the ONLY one whose opinion counts, in whether or not to end her own life.